I often contemplate divorcing my husband so that I could seek happiness elsewhere, or at least companionship. It did not go well. What about the folks at church. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. As for me, I recall spending a lot of Sundays at sporting events with my dad. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this.
My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. The church is very important to her.
They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. I think we date twice a year. So I feel a little frightened after reading this blog. There are all kinds of Mormons, and we as exmormons should know better than to stereotype our former selves. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush.
She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Rawkcuf, maybe your comment is like your name and intended backwards, but what do you mean by differences between races. But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon.